DEAR DEIDRE: I BOUGHT a camcorder to spy on my boyfriend and our flatmate and have become obsessed with watching them sleep together.
He and I have lived together for more than a year and this new girl joined us when our old flatmate left a couple of months ago.
We are both 23 and she is 21. I suspected she liked my guy but never believed he would cheat.
I could not believe it when I saw them in bed.
Now I seem unable to think of anything else and just can’t stop looking at the recording.
They have no idea that I know and I do not know how to handle the situation.
DEIDRE SAYS: I doubt things were really OK in your relationship for you to go to these lengths trying to catch him out.
Whatever stopped you confronting him then is still stopping you now, even though you have proof he’s cheating.
Stop watching the recording because it’s self-destructive.
Tell him either he attempts to repair your broken trust or you will end the relationship – and mean it.
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