Bride bans nephew from wedding after he insists on wearing Spider-Man costume

A bride revealed she’s banned her autistic nephew from wearing a Spider-Man costume to her wedding – but some people think she’s being unreasonable.

In a candid Reddit post, the lass explained how her sister’s seven-year-old son Josh was the ring bearer for the day.

She hoped he’d wear traditional wedding attire to her big day but the primary school child had other ideas.

The bride explained: “Apparently, Josh has taken to wearing a Spider-Man costume and will not take it off. It’s been weeks and he throws an absolute fit when asked to wear anything else.

“It’s to the point where he’s even wearing it to school because the parents have completely given up.

“My sister calls me to give me a ‘heads up’ that Josh will be wearing his costume to my wedding.”

Flabbergasted by the suggestion, the bride added: "I tell her absolutely not.

“I don’t care if he wears it during the reception, but I do not want Spider-Man walking down the aisle at my wedding and in all my photos.

“My sister gets indignant, tells me ‘Then you don’t want Josh at your wedding’ because she cannot get him to wear anything else without a tantrum ensuing.

“I said if she cannot get him into something at least semi-formal, she can make arrangements for him to have a babysitter during the ceremony.

“She huffed at me and told me I was being a complete Bridezilla and ‘banning an autistic child from my wedding.’”

The bride pleaded with Redditors for advice on the situation.

She said: “My fiancé is backing me up but my sister and her husband are now threatening to not come to the wedding at all.

“I have no idea what to do. Am I the a***hole?”

The post garnered 4,200 upvotes and thousands of comments – and people were pretty divided about who was in the wrong.

Some backed up the bride and said dress code comes down to her personal choices.

A Reddit user wrote: “She made it clear that she is banning Spider-Man, not Josh.

“If the sister can't get him into regular clothes, then that is where the line is drawn.”

Another agreed: “Not the a***hole. It’s your wedding, period.

“If you want a Spider-Man free wedding, you get a Spider-Man free wedding.”

And a third wrote: “Doesn't seem like your banning him because of his autism but because he can't dress appropriately without having a tantrum.

“Its your wedding and your choice, and I think its understandable if you don't want Spidey walking down the aisle.”

While some supported the bride, others thought she was being unreasonable.

A commenter pointed out: “You stated you want your nephew in your wedding. Your nephew is autistic. This is who he is. This is part of him. He can’t help this anymore than someone who has a different type of disability.

“In 10 years are you going to look back at your wedding photos and laugh that your nephew is wearing a Spider-Man costume or be sad because he’s not in it?”

Another agreed: “This this this. Wedding photos are about capturing memories, not winning an art contest.”

And a third added: “Seriously this! What is more important to her? The picture perfect Pinterest wedding photos or her family?”

What do you make of the awkward family argument? Let us know in the comments section below.

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