‘My fiancé went to a strip club for his stag do so I’m calling off wedding’

Many men go to strip clubs on their stag dos, which can cause tension in their relationships.

This was the case for one groom, who landed himself in trouble after watching ladies work the pole.

His fiancé is so fuming she is now considering calling off the wedding.

Taking to Reddit for advice, she wrote: "My fiancé and I are supposed to get married in three weeks.

"We are to have a small wedding, and we both had bachelor/bachelorette parties with our wedding parties.

"I went to a log cabin with my friends, we had a spa day and just relaxed, and my husband and his friends were supposed to do something similar."

She continued: "I told my husband prior that if he goes to a strip club then I am not marrying him because I am uncomfortable with him going.

"He comes back and the first thing he says is 'Baby I’m so sorry, but the guys surprised me and took me to a strip club' and I said 'oh, so what did you do?' and he looked at me blankly and said 'what do you mean?' and I said 'well what happened when you told them you couldn’t be there?' and he looked at me and went 'well, uh- I' and didn’t know what to say.

"I immediately was upset and told him I’m going to sleep at my sister’s, and that I do not want to marry him anymore, even if that means losing thousands of dollars.

"My fiancé is begging me to give him another chance and thinks therapy may help but my trust feels completely violated.

"My sister thinks I’m overreacting as she hired a stripper for her husband’s bachelor party, but I don’t think she understands that I’ve set different boundaries in my relationship.

"This was a boundary that was established five years ago when we began dating."

People were supportive of the bride on Reddit – and some even told her to walk away from the relationship.

One said: "Don’t marry him. You set the rules and boundaries. He clearly knew them.

"What happens here happens for the rest of your life? Be firm on your boundaries or get walked all over."

And another commented: "It's up to you. I would definitely not get married. This is not ok.

"He knew the boundaries, he accepted the boundaries, he proceeds to stomp all over the boundaries. This is definitely something that needs to be addressed before entering into marriage.

"I think it can be fixed through counselling. But, whether the both of you are willing to do that? That's something you both have to decide."

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