My husband admitted to sex with escorts last year and I can't get over it

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY husband had sex with escorts last year and I can’t stop going on about it.

It makes him mad.

We’re in our thirties with two young kids.

Last weekend we went to visit my family for the first time since before lockdown.

He only wanted to stay for a cuppa but I said to stay longer as the kids were playing. On the way home he went crazy, shouting that I was selfish.

When the kids were in bed I laid into him about the escorts.

He pulled my hair, slapped and kicked me, while I kicked him back.

I know it wasn’t all his fault and the next day we made love and it was all OK.

I get so angry when I remember he cheated but I don’t want to leave.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You may be struggling to manage feelings of hurt and mistrust but that doesn’t excuse his violence and abuse.

Your children will have been frightened.

My e-leaflet Abusive Partner? will help you break this destructive pattern.

He can speak with the Respect Phoneline to change his behaviour (respectphone, 0808 802 4040).

If not, separating is the only safe choice.

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