DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband and I had an arranged marriage more than a year ago but it’s still sexless.
At first I thought he might be gay but I now realise he has erection problems, though he won’t admit that to me. We’re both in our thirties.
He went to the doctor and told me it was for vitamins. But he can’t maintain an erection when we try to have sex and I still feel like a virgin.
We don’t have an emotional connection or a physical one. I feel depressed and unloved. My husband isn’t romantic or caring.
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DEIDRE SAYS: He most likely feels like a failure. Tell your husband you want your marriage to work and for the two of you to start showing one another some loving affection, even if you can’t have full sex yet.
Assuming he has no physical or medical prob-lem, my e-leaflet on Solving Erection Problems can help the two of you resolve this together.
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