DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend has erectile dysfunction and he takes medication – but nothing seems to help.
When it comes to us having sex, the moment has gone before we have a chance to make love.
He’s a big guy and drinks a few cans every night. Plus he’s a heavy snorer.
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Because of this I wear ear plugs at night and he puts cotton wool in his nostrils to try to alleviate the noise, but with no joy.
I don’t want to hurt his feelings so I tell him I had a good night’s sleep, although it’s not the truth.
I’m 42, he’s 48 and we’ve been together for three years.
Can you help with his snoring and our sex life?
DEIDRE SAYS: Yes. The thing that would most likely help on both counts is for him to slim down.
People who are overweight and snore often get good results if they can shift a few pounds.
Drinking alcohol will be affecting his erectile dysfunction too. So if he could give this up and take some exercise after dinner instead, he may reap the rewards.
He can find help via the Sexual Advice Association (sexualadviceassociation .co.uk).
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