{"id":143734,"date":"2023-10-01T10:07:58","date_gmt":"2023-10-01T10:07:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebritywshow.com\/?p=143734"},"modified":"2023-10-01T10:07:58","modified_gmt":"2023-10-01T10:07:58","slug":"psychologist-reveals-8-behaviours-that-can-hurt-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebritywshow.com\/lifestyle\/psychologist-reveals-8-behaviours-that-can-hurt-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Psychologist reveals 8 behaviours that can hurt relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>I&#8217;m a psychologist &#8211; these 8 habits could be harming your relationship<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dr Lalitaa Suglani, a clinical psychologist in Birmingham, discussed relationships<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE: Are YOU lonely? Psychologist reveals 12 subtle signs \u2013 and the reason other people might not notice<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A psychologist has revealed eight harmful behaviours that could be hurting your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Birmingham-based\u00a0chartered psychologist\u00a0Dr Lalitaa Suglani, who offers courses on topics including\u00a0managing anxiety, overcoming fear and imposter syndrome,\u00a0took to Instagram to share information on the topic in a recent post.<\/p>\n<p>In the post, she outlined eight behaviours that could be having a harmful effect on your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Accompanying the list of eight behaviours was an extensive caption in which Dr Lalitaa discussed relationships.<\/p>\n<p>In the caption, the psychologist pointed out that &#8216;no relationship is perfect&#8217; &#8211; and that they require &#8216;effort from both sides&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/27\/17\/75564687-12531765-People_need_to_work_on_their_relationships_to_make_them_great_ac-a-12_1695831160115.jpg\" height=\"428\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>People need to work on their relationships to make them &#8216;great&#8217;, according to a psychologist, who has outlined a list of behaviours that can negatively impact partnerships (stock image)<\/p>\n<p>This effort, she continues, &#8216;looks different for each person based on past experiences and your love language&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Dr Lalitaa notes that relationships do not just have to be romantic, adding that &#8216;we can also see relationships such as those with family and friends&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Dr Lalitaa&#8217;s 8 harmful relationship behaviours<\/h3>\n<p>1.\u00a0Being silent about the things that have hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0Refusing to let go because you are fearful of what can come next.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0Avoiding conflict and hoping things &#8216;just get better&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0Expecting people to read your mind and guess how feel.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0Being &#8216;too busy&#8217; to make and spend time together.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>6.\u00a0Dishonouring your boundaries to keep the peace&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>7.\u00a0Trying to get &#8216;even&#8217; from a place of anger.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>8.\u00a0Excusing unhealthy behaviours because &#8216;I love them&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The psychologist writes: &#8216;Relationships are work in progress.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;In your relationship as you go through experiences your relationship will go through transitions and will evolve &#8211; after-all it takes two to tango.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>She explains that great relationships &#8216;aren&#8217;t great because there are no problems&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Rather, she explains, they are great because both parties care enough about their partner to make the relationship work.<\/p>\n<p>According to Dr Lalitaa, research indicates that &#8216;good relationships correlate with health, happiness, and longevity&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>This shows the importance of good relationships &#8211; and why it is therefore important to work towards nurturing them.<\/p>\n<p>Her list of eight things that can harm partnerships includes a range of behaviours &#8211; from being fearful about properly engaging, to failing to verbalise your own needs.<\/p>\n<p>The first item on the list is being silent about the things that have hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>Next is refusing to let go because you are fearful of what can come next.<\/p>\n<p>The third point raised by the psychologist pertains to conflict &#8211; or the avoidance of it.<\/p>\n<p>She says that it can be harmful to relationships when people avoid\u00a0conflict and hope things will &#8216;just get better&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Communication forms the cornerstone of her next point, which says it can negatively impact relationships when people expect others to read their mind and guess how they feel.<\/p>\n<p>The final behaviours on her list are\u00a0 being &#8216;too busy&#8217; to make and spend time together, dishonouring your boundaries to keep the peace&#8217;, trying to get &#8216;even from a place of anger, and excusing unhealthy behaviours because &#8216;I love them&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Lalitaa continues: &#8216;Remember relationships work two ways. It\u2019s not just about what your partner does for you, but it is also about what you bring to the table.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;It&#8217;s deeply trying to understand each other\u2019s needs and show you care. We tend to feel valued and appreciated when our needs are met intently. 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