Family members said they were thankful that 12 hostages taken from the kibbutz had been returned home to Israel, but that was only \u201ca drop in the bucket\u201d, according to Larry Butler, 73, a Nir Oz resident who survived the attack. Of the estimated 215 hostages who remain in Gaza, roughly 30 per cent are from Nir Oz.<\/p>\n
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Undated photos of some of the released hostages, from left: Daniel Aloni and her daughter Emilia; sisters Aviv, right, and Raz Katz Asher; Keren Munder and her son Ohad.<\/span><\/p>\n Per capita, Nir Oz is the Israeli village most affected by the devastating attack. That day, roughly 100 Nir Oz residents were killed or abducted \u2013 a quarter of the village\u2019s population.<\/p>\n On Saturday (AEDT), the survivors felt some sense of salvation as 12 of their neighbours and relatives \u2013 ranging from Yaffa Adar, 85; to Aviv Asher, 2 \u2013 were driven to safety by the Red Cross through Egypt to Israel.<\/p>\n \u201cIs that my grandmother?\u201d a young girl cried out after residents identified Margalit Moses, 78, their neighbour from Nir Oz, waving from a Red Cross vehicle.<\/p>\n Released: Yaffa Adar, Channa Peri and Margalit Moses.<\/span><\/p>\n But that elation was tempered by a wider feeling of loss.<\/p>\n \u201cThere are kids here without parents, parents without kids, and grandparents with grandchildren but no parents,\u201d Butler said.<\/p>\n \u201cSee the baby over there?\u201d he said, pointing to a woman with a newborn cradled in her arms. \u201cThe husband is in Gaza.\u201d<\/p>\n The village was founded in 1955 as a collective farm whose members pooled their resources and earnings.<\/p>\n Its surviving residents describe their hometown as a left-leaning community, dominated by people who hoped for peace with the Palestinians across the border in Gaza, even as most Israelis lost hope in a negotiated peace settlement.<\/p>\n Israeli soldiers inspect houses destroyed by Hamas militants Kibbutz Nir Oz, southern Israel, last week.<\/span>Credit: <\/span>AP<\/cite><\/p>\n Butler, a Philadelphia native who fought in Vietnam as a US Marine, moved to Nir Oz in 1974 because the community \u2013 some of them soldiers turned peace activists \u2013 embraced him at a time when Americans turned their back on veterans.<\/p>\n But after the October 7 attack, Butler said his commitment to peace had been shaken. Thirty of his friends were killed and 60 were abducted, he said.<\/p>\n \u201cI trusted them,\u201d Butler said about his Palestinian neighbours. \u201cI was completely wrong,\u201d he added.<\/p>\n After much of the village was destroyed on October 7, most of the survivors moved en masse to a hotel in Eilat, a resort city on the Red Sea. The mood in the hotel swings rapidly between normality to grief.<\/p>\n Earlier this week, packs of Nir Oz kids ran around barefoot in the hotel lobby, seemingly oblivious to the surrounding trauma. Suddenly one boy, about 10 years old, paused his play. \u201cWhat\u2019s that? I\u2019m hearing shooting,\u201d he said, imagining a semi-automatic weapon only he could hear.<\/p>\n On Thursday evening, when uncertainty about the impending hostage deal was at its peak, Idan Cunio, 8, came up to his mother, Paula Cunio, 38, to announce that he heard on the news that his twin cousins were going to be released.<\/p>\n \u201cHe\u2019s just saying what he wants to be true,\u201d Cunio said.<\/p>\n The Cunio family has four family members still in captivity: David Cunio, 33; his partner Sharon Alony Cunio, 44; and their twins Emma and Yuli.<\/p>\n Sharon\u2019s sister, Danielle Alony, 44, and her daughter Amelia, 5, were set free on Saturday (AEDT).<\/p>\n Irit Lahav, 57, who has spent most of her life in Nir Oz, said that being together in the hotel has brought the community together. \u201cWe already were like a family,\u201d she said. \u201cBut now it\u2019s more like a hugging family.\u201d<\/p>\n However, residents were recently warned that their time in Eilat was coming to a close.<\/p>\n In mid-December, they will be moved to an apartment complex in Kiryat Gat, a small, uncelebrated city in central Israel, for a year. This will jeopardise the communal fabric the kibbutz has worked so hard to maintain, residents said.<\/p>\n \u201cWho will you meet, just your neighbours in the apartment building?\u201d Lahav asked.<\/p>\n In Kiryat Gat, Cunio plans to devote her time to figuring out what\u2019s next. \u201cWe\u2019re starting from scratch,\u201d she said. \u201cThe life we had before is over.\u201d<\/p>\n The community will be saving rooms for the hostages, but until they are all released, Cunio does not know how they will fit into the future of the kibbutz.<\/p>\n One thing is for certain, Cunio said: she and many other survivors will not be going back to the kibbutz. \u201cThere\u2019s nowhere to return,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n This article originally appeared in The New York Times<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p>\n
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