{"id":145621,"date":"2023-11-27T18:25:55","date_gmt":"2023-11-27T18:25:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebritywshow.com\/?p=145621"},"modified":"2023-11-27T18:25:55","modified_gmt":"2023-11-27T18:25:55","slug":"my-in-laws-are-causing-wedding-chaos-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebritywshow.com\/lifestyle\/my-in-laws-are-causing-wedding-chaos-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My in-laws are causing\u00a0wedding\u00a0chaos | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: I feel ill at the thought of my son\u2019s wedding going ahead but the invitations have gone out already.<\/p>\n<p>My son and his partner decided to get married on Christmas Eve this year. They are on a limited budget as my son is a gardener and my future daughter-in-law works in a nursery.<\/p>\n<p>They have been careful about who to invite. It was agreed that they would invite close family and friends that they regularly see.<\/p>\n<p>My more distant family wished them well and are totally understanding about the lack of invitation.<\/p>\n<p>But my husband\u2019s parents and my nephew have taken a different stance. <\/p>\n<p>My husband\u2019s parents brought up my nephew\/their grandson \u2013 who was always a very spoilt boy and was put on a pedestal by my in-laws.<\/p>\n<h3>Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n<p>Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n<p>Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n<p>You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently now, at 25, my nephew is rude and arrogant. The relationship between him and my son petered out years ago.<\/p>\n<p>Now my in-laws are demanding that our nephew is invited to the wedding. <\/p>\n<p>The guy himself has sent my son some nasty texts, insisting he explain himself. <\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m his mum and I\u2019m 65. My son is 29 and he should be looking forward to his big day not dealing with this.<\/p>\n<h2>MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/h2>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/upset-young-man-talking-father-698498620.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/upset-young-man-talking-father-698498620.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/upset-young-man-talking-father-698498620.jpg\"><\/picture><span>SO RUDE <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>My dad refuses to accept my autism and I don&#x27;t want to be around him<\/h3>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc27nov-day2-comp.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc27nov-day2-comp.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc27nov-day2-comp.jpg\"><\/picture><span>PHOTO CASEBOOK <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Kate finds out her friend is also dating Dale<\/h3>\n<p><span><strong>DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Sometimes the most happy of occasions bring out the worst in people.<br \/>Your son should stick to his guns and ignore his cousin\u2019s demands. He doesn\u2019t need to justify who is and isn\u2019t invited to his wedding.<\/p>\n<p>Your in-laws\u2019 treatment of their grandson has made him feel privileged but they are forgetting it is your son and his future wife\u2019s day \u2013 not theirs.<\/p>\n<p>If things don\u2019t settle down, ask your husband to speak to his parents and remind them there are financial constraints and the day doesn\u2019t belong to them.<\/p>\n<p>My support pack Wedding Day Worries is filled with advice to help these difficult situations when families get involved.<\/p>\n<h2>Most read in Dear Deidre<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc27nov-day2-comp.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>Kate finds out her friend is also dating Dale<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/people-relationship-difficulties-conflict-827089760.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>I caught my husband having sex with other men&#8230; and he blames me<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/upset-young-man-talking-father-698498620.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>My dad refuses to accept my autism and I don&#8217;t want to be around him<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/unhappy-millennial-caucasian-woman-look-784321478.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>Parents arrange Christmas around my sister and I only hear of plans later<\/h3>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/dear-deidre\/24866433\/my-in-laws-are-causing-chaos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: I feel ill at the thought of my son\u2019s wedding going ahead but the invitations have gone out already. 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