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<\/p>\nIT might sound crazy to some, but a woman has revealed that she charges her family for cooking their Christmas dinner. <\/p>\n
Widower and pensioner, Caroline Duddridge, 64, doesn't care if people moan, because this year everyone\u2019s festive meal will be more expensive than ever.<\/p>\n
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The mum-of-five and nan-of-six explained that she is charging everyone, including her grandkids, for her yuletide spread with adults forking out up to \u00a315, the grandchildren including a 12-year-old and three nine-year-olds \u00a35 and two three-year-olds \u00a32.50.\u00a0<\/p>\n
But she\u2019s not alone.\u00a0<\/p>\n
An online survey of Fabulous readers revealed 58 percent of people agreed with charging for the special meal while 21 percent were against it and the remaining 21 percent were sitting on the fence.<\/p>\n
Speaking exclusively to Fabulous, Caroline explains how her \u2018dosh for dinner\u2019 is an annual tradition.<\/p>\n
\u201cI log into my bank account and check who has made their Christmas dinner payment in November,\u201d she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cOnce my \u2018naughty and nice\u2019 tally is done I do a quick ring around chasing my \u2018delinquent depositors\u2019 and remind them to meet their payment date of December 1.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a phone call my five grown children aged 37, 34, 32, 29 and 24 are used to. I know some will moan and I will get excuses like \u2018my pay hasn't gone in\u2019 or \u2018my bank account is frozen\u2019 and \u2018can I leave it another week?\u2019 but I will eventually receive cash from them for the meal.\u201d<\/p>\n This year grocery prices are skyrocketing and nabbing the best deals will mean the former teaching assistant, who is on a widow's pension of \u00a31,000 a month, will be spending more time than ever visiting supermarkets and checking deals.\u00a0<\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m spending dozens of hours finding the cheapest prices, best bargains and timing supermarket trips to get the pick of cut-price yellow label items,\u201d she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cEvery week my meal budget buys less and less so I have to be tactical in buying ingredients to make the dinner for my 12 guests.<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t allow late payments and the kids know it. Some complain about their bills and other costs, but I simply tell them they\u2019ll get uninvited. Everyone pays up.<\/p>\n \u201cI know many people will criticise charging for the Christmas meal, but I\u2019m not bothered.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s not money grabbing, it just makes budgeting sense and spreads the cost fairly between everyone at the table.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cExpecting one person to pay for the entire meal and prepare it, clean up, have their heating and electricity used is too much.<\/p>\n \u201cThe amount I charge for dinner includes electricity. It's a no brainer for me\u2026 it\u2019s the only way to go.\u201d<\/p>\n Some complain about their bills and other costs, but I simply tell them they\u2019ll get uninvited<\/p>\n \u201cIf I had my way, we\u2019d only have Christmas twice a decade. I love Christmas but all the expense and drama surrounding it is exhausting.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cMy plan at least streamlines dinner and ensures everyone has a say and helps out and no one faces post-Christmas money problems.\u201d<\/p>\n This year Caroline is charging her two sons \u00a315, her three daughters \u00a310, her four grandchildren over five years old \u00a35 and the grandkids under five \u00a32.50.<\/p>\n The women are charged less because they have families and work part-time.<\/p>\n Partners are charged similar amounts.<\/p>\n \u201cFor the immediate family and the grandchildren paying for Christmas dinner is nothing new,\u201d said Caroline.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cSome people might think it\u2019s harsh to put a levy on meals for kids but it's an important life lesson. The older grandkids like to try and offer to help me to earn some of their money back and I admire that.\u201d<\/p>\n Caroline started charging for Christmas dinner in 2016.<\/p>\n If I had my way, we\u2019d only have Christmas twice a decade<\/p>\n \u201cMy husband passed away in 2015 and my expendable income was halved,\u201d she said. \u201cI was working part-time as a teaching assistant and started receiving a widow's pension but making ends meet became harder.<\/p>\n \u201cLike many mums and grans who always make Christmas dinner, I couldn't bear the cost of buying all the gifts and paying for the entire meal. I was worried I\u2019d spend the New Year paying all off again.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cI told the children I was starting a Christmas kitty jar so everyone could contribute to the festive dinner. I asked the two boys to put \u00a32 a week in and my daughters a pound each.\u201d<\/p>\n Caroline said the kitty jar was hard to police<\/span>.<\/p>\n \u201cSome weeks everyone paid and other weeks some of the kids forgot or didn't have change,\u201d she said. \u201cIt ended up with some of my adult kids paying more and others not paying as much. There was always bickering.<\/p>\n Last year she announced she was scrapping the kitty jar and introducing a set menu price to make it fairer and less stressful.<\/p>\n \u201cI called a family meeting and announced the kitty jar was out and a one-off bank transfer payment was in,\u201d she said. \u201cThe kids liked the idea. Although a couple, being bargain hunters, tried to haggle me down.\u201d<\/p>\n A couple [of my kids], being bargain hunters, tried to haggle me down<\/p>\n Everyone has a say in the menu and the dinner includes wine, soft drinks, Christmas dinner and pudding with the traditional table decorations, Christmas crackers and a selection of nuts, and cheese.<\/p>\n \u201cWe\u2019re not big meat eaters,\u201d she said. \u201cI make a turkey<\/span> with traditional trimmings, gravy and a nut roast plus loads of veg.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cMy grown children bring beers or any speciality alcohol. Everything else is on tap and as much as you can eat.<\/p>\n \u201cI know what soft drinks the kids love and what speciality non-alcoholic drinks the adults like and buy them on sale.<\/p>\n \u201cI use my traditional table decorations, and everyone gets a job when it comes to serving. After lunch we\u2019ll watch the King\u2019s Speech on telly.\u201d<\/p>\n Caroline isn't concerned some people will call her selfish for making her kids and grandkids pay.<\/p>\n \u201cNo one wants to be overwhelmed with debt and it\u2019s unfair to expect one person to pay and make the entire meal,\u201d she said. \u201cI know some mums feel guilty if they don\u2019t do it all and provide a huge meal with no one else paying but I am practical.<\/p>\n![](\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/newspress-collage-24757356-1700134696975.jpg\")
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